The lies and the cheating that resulted in him fathering, at least four kids at this time outside of his marriage, that I am aware of. – Andile Mpisane
THE son of popular Durban businessman, Andile Mpisane has decided to air his parent’s dirty laundry in public. On Thursday he took to his Instagram to castigate his father Sbu Mpisane for allegedly vilifying his mother using the media.
The younger brother of a fitness model, Sbahle Mpisane says that he’s been in quiet observation of how his mother has been vilified by her estranged husband in the papers and tarnishing the legacy that his mother, Shawn Mpisane has left for him.
“Yesterday was a bitter sweet day… I have been in quiet observation of how uMa wami has been vilified by her estranged husband in the papers. I have kept the ‘indaba zabantu abadala’ but now, my name too is dragged into it, by someone who should have been my protector… From as far as I can remember my mother has been the nurturer of my passions. She always ensured, still does, that I stayed on course. Football was ALWAYS that passion. I played for Amazulu Football Club’s under 13, from the age of 11. During this time, as busy as her schedule was, uMa wami, Ma’Mkhize would be pitchside cheering me on, despite her building HER business empire.
One thing not well known about uMa wami, she is a humble, smart & ambitious lady, who obtained her BCom Accounting degree over 20 years ago. She saw my love for football and took it upon herself to cash in her, PERSONAL, dividend fund to purchase what was then Sivusta Football Club, with the sole aim to groom & nurture MY passion. She dove in head first and wholeheartedly into the world of football. Walked the corridors of football, with confidence. When her husband deserted the team over two years ago, facing relegation, with only 10 games left to the season. She did by sheer force and dedication. Because for her, it wasn’t just another accessory to show off, she respected the the process that goes into a thriving a club. Especially with her aim to keeping the legacy for ME, when I came of age.
“We live in a time where women, STILL, compensate to make their husbands not to appear emasculated, by their brilliance and achievements. For years I watched uMa wami, reduce her brilliance to raise up her husband’s ego – giving him positions and joint credit, where most in the boardroom new he had no contribution to. Unfortunately, what she bought, thinking it was for my legacy, created a resentment towards me from her husband. From June 2014, he became more distant and colder. I too became distant because as a teenage boy child, I had started seeing the treatment he gave my mother,” reads part 1 of his post.
In part 2 of his speech, Andile says the lies and the cheating that resulted in his father fathering, at least four kids outside of his marriage that he is aware of.
“The lies and the cheating that resulted in him fathering, at least four kids at this time outside of his marriage, that I am aware of… using her hard-earned resources to maintain them. You see uMa, tried elevating her husband by setting him up with his own businesses, that she would still pump money into because yet again, she couldn’t bare his emasculation, as self-inflicted as it was… those have all since closed since their separation, as he ran them dry.
“Yesterday, I bid farewell to the legacy uMa had set up for me. Yesterday I truly felt pain for my mother, who had endured 25 years of marriage with a sucker of her blood. As bitter as it was to let go of ROYAL EAGLES FOOTBALL CLUB, it was worth more to maintain the carefree spirit, with no anxiety I have seen on uMa since the separation from her husband. He is her husband, because he won’t grant her the wish to be divorced of him. He continues to slander her through media and gossip, yet she still maintains his life as he lives in HER property. Not paying a single utility bill.
“I call him her husband and not my father because a father would not go on 2 years without speaking to his son. A father would not intentionally LIE & STEAL what was built for his son. A father provides and does not take from the mother to rob his son.
“I wish the club all of the best in this new GLAD Championship season and know that we will stay family in our hearts. These are tough and confusing times, being led by a man who failed at leading his own household, it won’t be easy, but we trust he will seek the minds of those who know leadership, because the club is bigger than one family’s dispute, as many families depend on it”.
MGOSI Digital
